Bailee’s Story: Building Community

DecemĀ­ber 8, 2025 | By NRCF Team

Bailee

ā€œI am a perĀ­son who takes many labels,ā€ Bailee says with quiĀ­et conĀ­fiĀ­dence. ā€œBisexĀ­uĀ­al, LatiĀ­na, disĀ­abled, woman and more. I very much like to talk about interĀ­secĀ­tionĀ­alĀ­iĀ­ty for Queer peoĀ­ple. CovĀ­erĀ­ing all those bases is imporĀ­tant so that everyĀ­one feels part of a comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ty.ā€ For Bailee, incluĀ­sion isn’t just a concept—it’s perĀ­sonĀ­al. It’s the thread woven through every chapĀ­ter of her stoĀ­ry.

Finding Her Voice

GrowĀ­ing up, Bailee knew she was bisexĀ­uĀ­al. But underĀ­standĀ­ing yourĀ­self and being free to express it are two difĀ­ferĀ­ent things. ā€œI was always lookĀ­ing for peoĀ­ple who underĀ­stood how I felt. But at home, I had to keep it quiĀ­et,ā€ she explains. That limĀ­iĀ­nal space—out, but not fulĀ­ly free—affected her expeĀ­riĀ­ence at UniĀ­verĀ­siĀ­ty of CalĀ­iĀ­forĀ­nia at BerkeĀ­ley. ā€œWhen we get pushed into new spaces, it adds so much stress,ā€ she reflects. ā€œAm I Queer enough?ā€

Bailee was also grapĀ­pling with undiĀ­agĀ­nosed issues that would latĀ­er be idenĀ­tiĀ­fied as autism, OCD, and a chronĀ­ic heart conĀ­diĀ­tion. ā€œWe don’t have a lot of disĀ­abled repĀ­reĀ­senĀ­taĀ­tion in the Queer comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ty,ā€ she notes. ā€œAccesĀ­siĀ­bilĀ­iĀ­ty is not a top priĀ­orĀ­iĀ­ty.ā€ When her health demandĀ­ed attenĀ­tion, Bailee left colĀ­lege. This inflecĀ­tion point became a nine-year break from school and ultiĀ­mateĀ­ly led to buildĀ­ing someĀ­thing extraĀ­orĀ­diĀ­nary.

Creating Space for Others

Bailee disĀ­covĀ­ered Twitch, the gamĀ­ing streamĀ­ing platĀ­form. What startĀ­ed as a place to watch othĀ­ers play video games became the founĀ­daĀ­tion for a proĀ­found comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ty of conĀ­necĀ­tion. ā€œI became a streamĀ­er myself and formed this masĀ­sive comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ty of people—different idenĀ­tiĀ­ties, POC, Queer, disĀ­abled, all comĀ­ing togethĀ­er,ā€ Bailee says. ā€œWe bondĀ­ed over our love of role-playĀ­ing video games and fanĀ­taĀ­sy worlds. But it became so much more than that.ā€

GamĀ­ing was the entry point. But what emerged was a space where peoĀ­ple could talk about what they strugĀ­gled with as Queer peoĀ­ple navĀ­iĀ­gatĀ­ing spaces and interĀ­sectĀ­ing idenĀ­tiĀ­ties.

Returning with Purpose

Bailee began volĀ­unĀ­teerĀ­ing at the local LGBTQ+ CenĀ­ter withĀ­in the San Joaquin Valley—a rurĀ­al, conĀ­serĀ­vĀ­aĀ­tive area where resources are scarce and visĀ­iĀ­bilĀ­iĀ­ty can feel risky.

It was there that Bailee learned about NationĀ­al RainĀ­bow ColĀ­lege Fund. The scholĀ­arĀ­ship gave her someĀ­thing she desĀ­perĀ­ateĀ­ly needĀ­ed: the abilĀ­iĀ­ty to return to school and purĀ­sue her goals withĀ­out sacĀ­riĀ­ficĀ­ing her surĀ­vival.

Now at age 30, Bailee is in her secĀ­ond semesĀ­ter back at CalĀ­iĀ­forĀ­nia State UniĀ­verĀ­siĀ­ty, FresĀ­no, majorĀ­ing in comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­caĀ­tion. The scholĀ­arĀ­ship doesĀ­n’t just covĀ­er tuition—it funds the mateĀ­riĀ­als she needs for her serĀ­vice learnĀ­ing course, where she’s at a nonĀ­profĀ­it creĀ­atĀ­ing social media. The scholĀ­arĀ­ship helps pay her interĀ­net and elecĀ­triĀ­cal bills. ā€œI don’t make a lot of monĀ­ey,ā€ Bailee says simĀ­ply. ā€œThe scholĀ­arĀ­ship helps me do my work in a more proĀ­fesĀ­sionĀ­al setĀ­ting.ā€

Doing the Work Where It Matters Most

Being back in school after nine years brings perĀ­specĀ­tive. ā€œI want everyĀ­one to feel like they belong in these acaĀ­dĀ­eĀ­mĀ­ic spaces,ā€ she says. ā€œThat their voice matĀ­ters. It is easy to feel like no one cares—to only surĀ­vive.ā€

At FresĀ­no State, classĀ­mates openĀ­ly disĀ­agree when Bailee shares her perĀ­specĀ­tives. She gets looks. She hears comĀ­ments. But she’s reached a point where she’s comĀ­fortĀ­able with who she is. ā€œI can’t change everyĀ­one’s mind,ā€ she acknowlĀ­edges, ā€œbut I might be able to give someĀ­one a difĀ­ferĀ­ent perĀ­specĀ­tive.ā€

And perĀ­specĀ­tive is exactĀ­ly what driĀ­ves her forĀ­ward. ā€œPeoĀ­ple in the CenĀ­tral ValĀ­ley need resources like NationĀ­al RainĀ­bow ColĀ­lege Fund. We may not be seen as often, but we are here. Some peoĀ­ple leave for their safeĀ­ty, and some peoĀ­ple can’t leave.ā€

The Ripple Effect

NationĀ­al RainĀ­bow ColĀ­lege Fund didĀ­n’t soleĀ­ly help Bailee afford colĀ­lege. The scholĀ­arĀ­ship was an investĀ­ment in a comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ty builder, supĀ­portĀ­ing someĀ­one who will use her comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­caĀ­tion degree to ampliĀ­fy voicĀ­es. ā€œIt’s scary right now,ā€ Bailee says. ā€œBut fear is less imporĀ­tant than givĀ­ing voice to peoĀ­ple. We must keep going forĀ­ward.ā€

With the supĀ­port of NationĀ­al RainĀ­bow ColĀ­lege Fund, Bailee is buildĀ­ing the future she wished existĀ­ed when she first left home for BerkeĀ­ley. A future where accesĀ­siĀ­bilĀ­iĀ­ty is priĀ­orĀ­iĀ­tized, where all idenĀ­tiĀ­ties are celĀ­eĀ­bratĀ­ed, and where Queer peoĀ­ple everyĀ­where have resources and comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ty.

Your donaĀ­tion to NationĀ­al RainĀ­bow ColĀ­lege Fund supĀ­ports stuĀ­dents like Bailee—overcoming barĀ­riĀ­ers and buildĀ­ing comĀ­muĀ­niĀ­ties that change lives. Invest in the leadĀ­ers who will shape a betĀ­ter tomorĀ­row.