Baileeās Story: Building Community
DecemĀber 8, 2025 | By NRCF Team

āI am a perĀson who takes many labels,ā Bailee says with quiĀet conĀfiĀdence. āBisexĀuĀal, LatiĀna, disĀabled, woman and more. I very much like to talk about interĀsecĀtionĀalĀiĀty for Queer peoĀple. CovĀerĀing all those bases is imporĀtant so that everyĀone feels part of a comĀmuĀniĀty.ā For Bailee, incluĀsion isnāt just a conceptāitās perĀsonĀal. Itās the thread woven through every chapĀter of her stoĀry.
Finding Her Voice
GrowĀing up, Bailee knew she was bisexĀuĀal. But underĀstandĀing yourĀself and being free to express it are two difĀferĀent things. āI was always lookĀing for peoĀple who underĀstood how I felt. But at home, I had to keep it quiĀet,ā she explains. That limĀiĀnal spaceāout, but not fulĀly freeāaffected her expeĀriĀence at UniĀverĀsiĀty of CalĀiĀforĀnia at BerkeĀley. āWhen we get pushed into new spaces, it adds so much stress,ā she reflects. āAm I Queer enough?ā
Bailee was also grapĀpling with undiĀagĀnosed issues that would latĀer be idenĀtiĀfied as autism, OCD, and a chronĀic heart conĀdiĀtion. āWe donāt have a lot of disĀabled repĀreĀsenĀtaĀtion in the Queer comĀmuĀniĀty,ā she notes. āAccesĀsiĀbilĀiĀty is not a top priĀorĀiĀty.ā When her health demandĀed attenĀtion, Bailee left colĀlege. This inflecĀtion point became a nine-year break from school and ultiĀmateĀly led to buildĀing someĀthing extraĀorĀdiĀnary.
Creating Space for Others
Bailee disĀcovĀered Twitch, the gamĀing streamĀing platĀform. What startĀed as a place to watch othĀers play video games became the founĀdaĀtion for a proĀfound comĀmuĀniĀty of conĀnecĀtion. āI became a streamĀer myself and formed this masĀsive comĀmuĀniĀty of peopleādifferent idenĀtiĀties, POC, Queer, disĀabled, all comĀing togethĀer,ā Bailee says. āWe bondĀed over our love of role-playĀing video games and fanĀtaĀsy worlds. But it became so much more than that.ā
GamĀing was the entry point. But what emerged was a space where peoĀple could talk about what they strugĀgled with as Queer peoĀple navĀiĀgatĀing spaces and interĀsectĀing idenĀtiĀties.
Returning with Purpose
Bailee began volĀunĀteerĀing at the local LGBTQ+ CenĀter withĀin the San Joaquin Valleyāa rurĀal, conĀserĀvĀaĀtive area where resources are scarce and visĀiĀbilĀiĀty can feel risky.
It was there that Bailee learned about NationĀal RainĀbow ColĀlege Fund. The scholĀarĀship gave her someĀthing she desĀperĀateĀly needĀed: the abilĀiĀty to return to school and purĀsue her goals withĀout sacĀriĀficĀing her surĀvival.
Now at age 30, Bailee is in her secĀond semesĀter back at CalĀiĀforĀnia State UniĀverĀsiĀty, FresĀno, majorĀing in comĀmuĀniĀcaĀtion. The scholĀarĀship doesĀnāt just covĀer tuitionāit funds the mateĀriĀals she needs for her serĀvice learnĀing course, where sheās at a nonĀprofĀit creĀatĀing social media. The scholĀarĀship helps pay her interĀnet and elecĀtriĀcal bills. āI donāt make a lot of monĀey,ā Bailee says simĀply. āThe scholĀarĀship helps me do my work in a more proĀfesĀsionĀal setĀting.ā
Doing the Work Where It Matters Most
Being back in school after nine years brings perĀspecĀtive. āI want everyĀone to feel like they belong in these acaĀdĀeĀmĀic spaces,ā she says. āThat their voice matĀters. It is easy to feel like no one caresāto only surĀvive.ā
At FresĀno State, classĀmates openĀly disĀagree when Bailee shares her perĀspecĀtives. She gets looks. She hears comĀments. But sheās reached a point where sheās comĀfortĀable with who she is. āI canāt change everyĀoneās mind,ā she acknowlĀedges, ābut I might be able to give someĀone a difĀferĀent perĀspecĀtive.ā
And perĀspecĀtive is exactĀly what driĀves her forĀward. āPeoĀple in the CenĀtral ValĀley need resources like NationĀal RainĀbow ColĀlege Fund. We may not be seen as often, but we are here. Some peoĀple leave for their safeĀty, and some peoĀple canāt leave.ā
The Ripple Effect
NationĀal RainĀbow ColĀlege Fund didĀnāt soleĀly help Bailee afford colĀlege. The scholĀarĀship was an investĀment in a comĀmuĀniĀty builder, supĀportĀing someĀone who will use her comĀmuĀniĀcaĀtion degree to ampliĀfy voicĀes. āItās scary right now,ā Bailee says. āBut fear is less imporĀtant than givĀing voice to peoĀple. We must keep going forĀward.ā
With the supĀport of NationĀal RainĀbow ColĀlege Fund, Bailee is buildĀing the future she wished existĀed when she first left home for BerkeĀley. A future where accesĀsiĀbilĀiĀty is priĀorĀiĀtized, where all idenĀtiĀties are celĀeĀbratĀed, and where Queer peoĀple everyĀwhere have resources and comĀmuĀniĀty.
Your donaĀtion to NationĀal RainĀbow ColĀlege Fund supĀports stuĀdents like Baileeāovercoming barĀriĀers and buildĀing comĀmuĀniĀties that change lives. Invest in the leadĀers who will shape a betĀter tomorĀrow.